There’s a common misconception that I hate hearing and that is that only professional models can shine in front of the camera. Let me debunk that myth right now!
Firstly, You do not need to be a model to have an incredible boudoir shoot experience. In fact, embracing one’s authentic self is what makes boudoir photography so powerful and transformative for many every day clients.
When browsing through a boudoir photographers portfolio, it’s easy to assume that a lot of the women featured resemble professional models or have had prior modelling experience. However, in reality, the majority of the women showcased are in fact everyday women like you and me!
As a boudoir photographer, I’ve had the privilege of capturing the beauty and the sensuality and confidence of women from all walks of life. From stay-at-home mums to corporate professionals, from students to retirees, each client brings with them their own story and essence to their boudoir session.
The magic happens when they let go of the idea that they need to fit a certain mold or some idealised version of perfection.
Boudoir photography is about celebrating YOU.
It’s most certainly not about conforming to society’s standards of beauty. It’s about embracing your imperfections and your curves and everything that makes you, you. Realising that’s what makes you beautifully unique.
Boudoir photography is a journey of self discovery and empowerment. It’s an invitation to venture beyond the confines of your comfort zone. It’s an opportunity to challenge those insecurities and reclaim your confidence.
Moreover, boudoir photography is an intimate collaboration between you and your photographer. A skilled boudoir photographer knows how to create a safe space and a supportive environment where you can express yourself freely without judgement. They’ll guide you through poses and expressions that accentuate your best features, making sure you are comfortable physically (sometimes!!) but most importantly comfortable mentally.
It’s not solely about mastering that perfect pose; it’s about also capturing genuine authentic moments. Whether it’s an a impromptu pose one gets themselves into whilst waiting for direction for the next pose or a spontaneous burst of laughter, it’s these genuine instances that truly shine through the lens, showcasing the natural beauty and spirit of each individual.
Lastly, boudoir photography for women is a celebration of femininity, regardless of age, shape, size or ethnicity. There is no one-size-fits-all definition of beauty and boudoir photography reflects that diversity. Whether you’re in your early twenties or your late sixties, whether you’re a size eight or a size twenty, you deserve to feel desirable and confident in your own skin.
Your boudoir shoot is a chance for you to embrace your femininity in all its forms and express it unapologetically.
In conclusion, you do not need to be a model to book a boudoir portrait session. All you need is the willingness to embrace your self, let go of any inhibitions and trust in the process.
Your boudoir session is about discovering the beauty, the strength and the sensuality you have within you. So go ahead, book that boudoir session and let your inner goddess shine.
You are enough, just as you. ❤️